Was talking to a friend of mine and we were musing about being passive and active in getting what we want.
"which is better?" I wonder sometimes.

I guess we can't go to extremes with either approach. Be too passive and you'll lead a stagnant life while being a parasite to those around you. Be too active and you'll kill yourself, well eventually.

That means we should balance both I suppose. Like put in all efforts and hope for the best. Sighs, I'm stressed and depressed and lost.