Imagine this.
I'm glued to my chair and frantically struggling to write out a coherent draft of the memorial and my icq goes "uh oh". Thinking it's one of my friends, I open the message to find an unknown person's message. Already bewildered, the feeling of "this guy's ridiculous" came instinctly to my mind, cause he was asking me to go out for coffee. I'm like, "Hello? I don't even know you". (Not to mention that coffee makes me dizzy and the memorial is NOT done yet. ) Oh god, spare me please. Give me some peace and quiet.

Anyway, if you have to know, I dumped him straight under ignore list. Haha.